Three Types of Boys to Avoid
1) The guy that hits on your friends: There is no excuse for this kind of guy. And I have no patience for him. We all know him, the guy that seems to like one girl but cant really make up his mind...and is a little too nice to her friends, but never crosses the line blatently so she can't do anything but feel insecure and sad about it? Yeah, I know this guy. The one who enjoys a free-for-all, whatever sticks, he’ll go with. AVOID. If he can’t even decide that you’re the one he wants to pursue, you’re already too good for him. Move on. You’re dogging a bullet on this one. Trust me.
2) The overall asshole: This one is a bit more subjective, I realize. I'm not talking about the bad boy with a good heart here...When I was growing up, one of the biggest criteria I had for a guy was not only how he treated me, but how he treated everyone else around him. If a guy likes you, most likely, he’ll give you attention and will show interest in you. All positive things. The thing to watch for? How does he treat everyone else? Your family? Your friends? More than that, how does he treat the cashier? The gas attendant? The ticket taker at the movies? The taxi driver? The waitress? That’s important. Why? Because it is a clear indication of how he’ll treat you the second he’s not getting what he wants.
3) The cheater: No girls, I don’t care if “they weren’t really together,” “he wouldn’t do that to me,” “ he didn’t really like her,” “it was last year,” or “it only happened the one time.” If he’d cheat on her, he’d cheat on you. If he has cheated on you, his instinct will be to do it again. Cheating represents SERIOUS character flaws in the cheater...Moreover, even if it was really just a one time thing, you don’t know that, you'll probably be plagued with insecurities....so all I’m saying is, if you know a guy has cheated in the past, next. Find one that hasn’t first before you even consider the loser that has. And never forget, he's a loser because he cheated.
1) The guy that hits on your friends: There is no excuse for this kind of guy. And I have no patience for him. We all know him, the guy that seems to like one girl but cant really make up his mind...and is a little too nice to her friends, but never crosses the line blatently so she can't do anything but feel insecure and sad about it? Yeah, I know this guy. The one who enjoys a free-for-all, whatever sticks, he’ll go with. AVOID. If he can’t even decide that you’re the one he wants to pursue, you’re already too good for him. Move on. You’re dogging a bullet on this one. Trust me.
2) The overall asshole: This one is a bit more subjective, I realize. I'm not talking about the bad boy with a good heart here...When I was growing up, one of the biggest criteria I had for a guy was not only how he treated me, but how he treated everyone else around him. If a guy likes you, most likely, he’ll give you attention and will show interest in you. All positive things. The thing to watch for? How does he treat everyone else? Your family? Your friends? More than that, how does he treat the cashier? The gas attendant? The ticket taker at the movies? The taxi driver? The waitress? That’s important. Why? Because it is a clear indication of how he’ll treat you the second he’s not getting what he wants.
3) The cheater: No girls, I don’t care if “they weren’t really together,” “he wouldn’t do that to me,” “ he didn’t really like her,” “it was last year,” or “it only happened the one time.” If he’d cheat on her, he’d cheat on you. If he has cheated on you, his instinct will be to do it again. Cheating represents SERIOUS character flaws in the cheater...Moreover, even if it was really just a one time thing, you don’t know that, you'll probably be plagued with insecurities....so all I’m saying is, if you know a guy has cheated in the past, next. Find one that hasn’t first before you even consider the loser that has. And never forget, he's a loser because he cheated.
Next week's topic: Can guys and girls ever really just be friends?
You forgot the most important one: ALL of them.
ReplyDeleteoh my goodness.! so many girls make excuses for their boyfriends who act just like this! EVERY girl should read this and learn. hahaha.
ReplyDeleteKiran, you missed the most obvious category. The Murderer! :)
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I think it'd be smart not to go for a guy named Dimitri.
ReplyDeleteHe probably has a evil twin and likes drama n' cliff hangers.