Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Top Three Reasons why I Love Blogging





















The middle of the semester has arrived and as I reflect upon the last two months of school, I realize how much I am enjoying the Creative Communications program. Before I talk about how much I love blogging, I want to talk about school so far in general. I had one of those “ah ha!” moments last week while I was interviewing Ace Burpee for my personality profile article.

After the epic interview ended and I felt like I had really grown as a journalist, I couldn’t seem to contain my excitement. You know when you have one of those moments? Where you realize that you are exactly where you belong? If my job is honestly going to give me the opportunity to sit down with people, get them to open up to me, and then write about it, I’m pretty damn lucky.

Right after my interview ended, my old elementary teacher walked into Starbucks. She had taught me grade four, five, and six and is one of the teachers I will remember the most in my life. She taught me how to write, how to enjoy reading, and just about being a better learner in general. Anka Mraovic teaches at Landsdowne Elementary School in the Maples now (not my old elementary), and she is literally one of the best teachers in Manitoba. Maybe the world. How lovely that she walked in right after I had my epiphany? It was full circle!

Anyways, this leads me to my blog topic this week. How cool is it that one of my SCHOOL assignments is to blog?? I never expected to feel this way, but ever since being given the blogging assignment earlier this year, I have loved this process. Here are my top three reasons why I love blogging:

REASON #1

I really love reading my classmates’ blogs. Everyone is SO interesting, funny, and smart and so, I really do enjoy sitting down and reading their writing, thoughts, and opinions. Most of the time, they really make me laugh.

REASON #2

I love that I actually do stop and think about what my blog post will be that week. It’s fun to look for inspiration around me and make a blog topic out of an idea that I may not have otherwise explored before.

REASON #3

The third reason that I love blogging is because I am able to write freely about something that I am passionate about. I am able to sit down and write openly about a topic that I care about. How often does that happen? I’ve been told that I write the way I speak in my blog, which is pretty accurate, I think.

Usually, we write because we have to or for school, not out of pure enjoyment but this blog has given me the opportunity to just give my opinion on LOVE...no strings attached. I’ve always been a writer, but honestly, this is the first time in my life that I have consciously enjoyed writing. I look forward to writing my blog entries each week because I can document my thoughts in a laid back way. I feel like I'm journaling, so there's no pressure, and I can enjoy the process. Quite frankly, this assignment has helped reinstate my love for writing.
















SIDE NOTE

How WONDERFUL is it that I am able to write about love? Seriously, Love is such a big topic in most peoples' lives and I love love love love love that I am able to talk about it! Or that you’re here to listen. Thanks!

Coming soon, my theory on SOULMATES.


Monday, October 26, 2009

Because I LOVE my freaking amazing classmates

I'm still laughing. What a day! One that had every reason in the world to end epically badly and disastrously has been one that was actually pretty funny...and it's all because of CreComm section 2.

Firstly, I gotta give a shoutout to Miguel Martinez, an amazing guy in my section. This morning, I got to school early to print my personality profile, but for some reason, when I went to print it at 7:45 am in W308 (that printer is my NEMESIS), it paper jammed. I desperately tried to fix it.....but nothing worked...the minutes ticked by....Running out of options, I sprinted to the office to tell Steve. I could tell he felt bad for me but had no option, I had to print the article on time or else I'd fail.

At this point, I'm sort of freaking out. 7:49 the clock says. I run out of the office and collide into Miguel. "Miguel!!! The printer! I need help..," I say as I sprint by him, get my student card, and desperately( yes everything was desperate this morning), make my way to W312. Of course, starting the computer and signing in seems to take ages and ages. The clock ticks by, 7:53 am....it keeps going, on and on while the damn computer takes its sweet time.

Finally, at 7:58 a.m. when I try to open my document, it won't work....because the document is still open on my computer in W308. My heart sinks. It's all over. All the work I did on this assignment for nothing. I've failed.

Trying not to give up or burst into tears, I run out of W312 towards W308 to close the document and go back to W312 to print it. I run by the clock 7:59 am. I collide once again into Miguel. "Kiran, it's fine. I handed it in," he says with a smile.

I think I literally bodychecked him with my embrace and I definitely didn't let go for a solid minute. He had followed me into W308, fixed the printer, printed my paper, and then went to the office and handed it in for me, while I was running around in W312. He didn't even tell Steve what he did, he just put my paper in the drop box. No attempt at getting recognition for his help.What a guy!

I know a lot of people in CreComm are kind of competitive...I'm not really. I try to only compete with myself, and I admit that the competitiveness of the program is the one thing I'm not crazy about. But look, Miguel looked out for me, he saved me, and he literally allowed me to pass an assignment I'd worked so hard on. Dude, he's one kick ass guy.

And then!? Before I left class today on my way to the gym, I realized that I'd left my lights on and my car woudln't start. Of course, I was parked right on busy Princess street too. What did I do? I called Jeremie and Kylie...I knew I could depend on them. And without a pause, the two and Alexa showed up to help me boost my car. Haha, it was a debaucle. None of us really knew what to do, Alexa was on the phone with her "booster cable source" and in the meantime, Jeremie electrocuted himself...in the end, two randoms had to come show us what to do...but we laughed the entire time.

Thanks guys...not only for helping me...but for being the first people I thought of to call. And for being so cool, that I didn't even blink an eye when the whole thing happened.

OH and!!! Group one in Broadcast this morning? Minority Report was SOOO funny! I loved it, I laughed soooo hard!

It has to be said. Section 2 is the most amazing section ever. These people are funny, kind, and god, do I love my CreComm classmates.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

But I didn't get butterflies.....


















I had a friend that told me about her new outlook on relationships the other day.

She told me that after being hurt by dating so many guys in the past that she’d had nothing in common with but ones that she’d been insanely attracted to, she has decided that she no longer cares about getting “butterflies” for a guy. She has decided that to her now, it is more important to be with a guy that she can trust. She’s over the whole “bad boy thing.” She no longer cares if she gets butterflies from a partner, just that he’s there for her when she really needs him.

As you get older, butterflies are overrated anyways.... trust is the most important thing in a relationship....or is it?

What do you think? Which is of the following options is more important in a relationship to you?

Option one: You get butterflies whenever the other person is around. You are insanely attracted to them physically. You get so much adrenaline and excitement just from being around them and the passion between the two of you is out of this world. Your chemistry has been crazy from the get go and you can’t stop thinking about the person. You want to be around them all the time and you can’t wait to see them next.

Option two: You’re with someone that you really connect with on an emotional level. Maybe you match intellectually, maybe the person challenges you and makes you think in ways you’d never even considered before. You are friends, you can rely on this person, you can trust them, they are dependable, and most of all? You feel safe with them. The relationship is stable and consistent.

Now most people argue that you can really only have one of the two options in a relationship. You are either madly and passionately in love with your significant other where you can’t keep your eyes or hands off of each other or you are with the “nice guy/girl,” the one that you can relate to, the one you get support from, but the one you don’t feel that extra “ouumph” for.

My opinion? Which is more important to me?

I think, of course, it is going to be difficult to find that person who completes both sets of criteria for you. The one that challenges you intellectually and supports you, the one that you can trust and depend on yet the one that you also have crazy amazing chemistry with and can’t stop thinking about.

That’s my answer. Don't settle for less.

One isn’t more important than the other. They go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other. Passion without trust is weak. Trust without passion is friendship.

My theory? Maybe....when you find the person that completes both options for you......that’s when you know that you’ve found the one.


Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Buyer Beware: Halloween Face Paints (on an unrelated note)

For our Advertising class, we were instructed to choose a topic and create a “Buyer Beware” project. The purpose of the project was to recommend certain products to consumers or to advise consumers against certain products.

MOTIVATION FOR PROJECT
Our group chose to test and study different Halloween face paints. More and more, it is recommended that children use Halloween face paint as a part of their costumes instead of masks. Masks have been found to have safety concerns for children. They can be restricting or suffocating for different kids and therefore face paint can be a safe alternative to them.


















TARGET AUDIENCE
Our target audience was parents because they are the ones that buy face paint for their children (it is mostly children that go all out and get dressed up for Halloween).

PRODUCTS
We decided to go around the city and go to the places that are most popular for Halloween costumes to buy different brands of face paint. We chose Dollarama, Superstore, Walmart, Party Stuff, and Value Village. We ended up buying a total of six different brands, the Dollarama brand, the Fun World brand (Walmart), the Rubie's brand, the Seasons brand, the Danson Decor brand, and the Lucky Art brand.

RESEARCH AND METHODOLOGY
Over the course of the next five days, my group met in the morning and we all painted our faces with the same brand of makeup. We then wore our face paint for a total of 6 hours and at the end of the day, we filed out a pre-made questionnaire and evaluated each product. All of the different skin types were represented by our group members and so we think that our results produced a holistic and fair evaluation.

Our group judged the products based on the following criteria:

Application: How smoothly the product could be applied and how well the colours show up (how bright).

Longevity: Whether or not the product faded throughout the day or smudged

Removal from skin: How well the product comes off with water at the end of a long day.

Skin irritability: Whether or not the product caused skin to become itchy, red, or did it give anyone a rash?

Physical activity: How well the product held up during physical activity. On Halloween, a lot of kids apply their face paint in the morning and then run around all day. We wanted to see whether or not the face paint would last even if the kids were running or sweating.

Removal from clothing: Often, children will get their face paint make up on their clothes while moving around. At times, face paint also has the ability to smear, smudge, or run onto children’s clothes. After our five days of testing, we tested how well the paints could be removed from clothing. We applied the face paint directly on to two pieces of fabric. One of the fabrics was pre-treated with Spray ‘n Wash while the other was left as is. They were both put in to a rinse cycle using Tide Coldwater and through the dryer. The results were taken, and then put through the wash cycle again.























In terms of our analysis, we did not take into consideration the price of the different products because although we do think price is an important factor in a parent’s decision of which brand to use, we did not think the price differences were enough of a reason to buy one product over the other because at the end of the day, in our opinion, quality is most important.

RESULTS

Overall we found that the Dollarama scored a 3.076 out of ten. I had a really hard time with this product for a few reasons. I have a darker skin tone (a light brown) and the colours came up really faint and were not vibrant at all. This meant that it took longer for me to apply the colours and I had to press harder (making the process uncomfortable) to get a decent colour. Additionally, the product really faded throughout the day. By the end of the day, it was barely visible and when I went to work out, it smeared and smudged, and even rubbed off onto my clothing. I know the other member’s didn’t have as hard a time with this product as I did, but I would not recommend it.

Overall, we found Danson Decor scored 5.195. The product was very faint and the colours were very dull during application which meant that it took a long time to get the desired shade. Additionally, the crayons themselves were hard to draw with or get a good colour out of. This product faded fast as well and it also seemed to rub off very easily (which made it easy to remove from my skin later on). Personally, the product was barely there to begin with and it continued to fade throughout the day. Also, my skin became itchier as the day went on and there were a few times when it seemed to smudge onto my clothes. It did wash out my clothing easily though.

Overall, we found the Seasons brand scored 5.412. I found this product to have a weak application and although it went on smoothly, it took a long time to get the desired colour because the colours were so faint. The product began to fade almost immediately, and by mid day, it was not visible on my face anymore (and it was also very light on my other group member’s faces). What was left of the product came off easily but disappeared during my workout. This product did not irritate my skin though.

Overall, we found the Rubies brand scored 5.872. I found that the colours were good but not that bright, vibrant, or interesting. Additionally, the application was not smooth. Again, although this product lasted better than the two before it, it was not that visible by the end of the day. That being said, for the most part, removal of the product was easy and most of the colours came off easily. It was a bit itchy and uncomfortable to wear and also, there was a bad selection of colours for the product.

Overall we found the Fun World brand scored 6.4083. The colours showed up clearly and vibrantly upon application and the process was smooth and easy. I was even able to blend the colours together to make more colours. Unfortunately, again for me, the product seemed to smear easily and before I knew it, the product was barely visible on my skin because it had faded so much. It had also made my skin itchy throughout the day but again, because it faded off, I was not able to judge it adequately for the physical activity, irritability, or removal from skin categories.

Overall, the Lucky Art brand scored 8.915. I loved this product compared to all the other ones. The colours were vibrant, bright, and the application was smooth. The crayons even came with a pointed tip so that there was good detail in the drawings. For the most part, the colour stayed on throughout the day and it came off well at the end of the day with just water. The Lucky Art brand also lasted throughout my workout and did not smudge at the end of the day. My skin was a bit itchy, but overall, there was no irritation.


















CONCLUSION

We found that the Lucky Art brand from Party Stuff was the best face paint by far out of all the ones that we tested (with a score of 8.9 out of ten) for the reasons mentioned above. Personally, Lucky Art brand was also the ONLY brand that was visible on my skin and the only brand that lasted throughout the day on my face and did not fade during my workout. The Lucky Art brand does have its faults such as the fact that it does rub off onto hands and objects but overall, it is still a quality product.

It is important for parents to test a product on their child’s skin before they paint their kids face with any type of face paint. Remember to read the directions and watch for any fragrances or preservatives that may harm the child.

Most of the face paints we tested were of bad quality. That being said, we believe that if you find a good one, such as the Lucky Art brand, it is still better to use Halloween face paint as a safe alternative to masks.























EXPERT OPINIONS

We also spoke to two experts to get their educated opinions on face paints. The first expert that we consulted was Dr. Earl S. Minuk MD who is a board-certified dermatologist and internist in both Canada and the U.S.A.

Overall, Dr. Minuk warned that just because a product claims to be non-toxic, it does not mean that it is safe for your skin. Additionally, even if a product claims to be hypoallergenic, it does not mean that it will be allergy specific and safe for all individuals. He also advised to avoid contact with any products that contain preservatives or fragrances. He encourages consumers to always test any product they use before application by testing it on a small part of their body. If a consumer checks their product for harmful ingredients before use, they should be ok.

Our second expert was Simbo the Clown, also known as Simmie Nasberg, an expert on face painting because she paints her own face and childrens’ faces for a living. She recommends that parents use the brand Caran d’ache to paint their childrens’ faces. A bit higher in price, $2.50 for one crayon and $20.00 for a full kit, she insists that the extra money is worth it. She tells parents to avoid covering a child’s entire face with paint. “Make sure the paint comes off before you put it on and avoid covering the whole face, the skin will not be able to breathe and irritation will be inevitable,” says Simbo.

RESPONSIBILITIES:

My Buyer Beware group consisted of Angèle Faucher, Jeremy Giacomin, Stacia Franz, Kiley Dyck and myself. I found that we had a good group, one that split up our duties in a fair and productive manner. For our memo, we got together to brainstorm and Angèle typed it out. After that, I edited it, added to it, and submitted it. In terms of our research, Jeremy and Angèle bought the face paints. Stacia created our grading template and each member wore the different face paints and filled out the templates at the end of each day. The face paint clothing test was performed by Kiley and the expert interviews were conducted by Jeremy. In terms of our final draft, Stacia wrote the intro, Angèle wrote the research summary, I created the results section, Jeremy wrote the expert summary, and the stain wash summary was prepared by Kiley. The responsibilities section was created by Stacia and the final draft was edited by all the group members. Photographs and attachments were also something the group did together.

FINAL PAPER
I found that I really enjoyed doing this part of the project. Our team divided up all of the parts of the paper equally and everyone finished their individual work on time. After that, the combining of the different parts went smoothly and everyone took turns editing through an “edit train” which I think went really well. I am very proud of our finished document.

PRESENTATION

The presentation was probably the part of the assignment that I was most worried about. Funny as it is the part of the project that was worth the least. That being said, our group collaborated well and everyone came together to come up with an interesting way to present our findings. Pictures, information, and some short skits helped us present our project in an effective way, I think.

I found this to be a really great project. I enjoyed the entire process and I really liked working with my group members. Hopefully our story will be profiled through some type of news outlet and our findings can be shared with the Winnipeg world! I’ll let you know how it goes!



Thursday, October 8, 2009

Theories about Love and Life

As promised, I thought that I would post some theories I have about love and life.

Just to clarify before I begin, the following is my opinion. By no means have I done any type of scientific research to back up my theories and so, I admit, they may be flawed. That being said, the theories are a result of active observation of some of my friends and the people around me. Anyways, take from them what you will. Food for thought.

Let’s begin.

Theory #1: Why some men are players

Alright, this theory is based on all the guys that I know that are overall good guys but that play women. It can be frustrating, mostly because these are guys that are able to separate their everyday lives and personality (usually great people) with how they treat women and what they use them for.

My theory on why some men are players is that usually these are men who themselves have been hurt in the past by a relationship or a woman.

Think about it for one second. Think of all the “players” you know out there. Did they start out as players? Or did they maybe have an experience in their past that has tainted them or jaded them? Most of the players I know (and trust me, I know a lot of them) are great guys, good people, students, family members, friends, and workers etc. But they just aren’t that good to women. And more often than not, if you were to analyze their past, I think you’d find that each “player” has most likely had one or two really bad experiences with a partner in the past.

When a woman goes through a negative experience with a partner, it often causes her to crave love and acceptance even more than before. After a bad experience, women often are not turned off of love all together, instead, usually they crave it even more than before. Men, on the other hand, after they’ve been hurt once or twice, begin to separate having a good time from love. They now are less interested in relationships because they’ve already been hurt and now are looking out for themselves before being interested in a serious relationship.

The theory is simple. Think about it. Of all the guys you know who are “players”, I bet you could link them to one or two girls that broke their heart in the past, that turned them off to the idea of love, at least for a bit, and therefore now they are more likely to be uninterested in love.

But it's all a show!



Maybe I should be a psychologist? I think my theory rocks.

Theory #2: Why some women are players

This theory of mine also derives from observing many different women around me. The women that I know that are most interested in having a good time without having a relationship have one thing in common. The absence of a male father figure in their lives.

Now, I want to reiterate that I am not trying to offend anyone by my post. I realize that I could be totally off (and if that’s the case, I welcome you to comment on this post and give me your opinion!)

All I’m saying is that a lot of the women that I know that could be seen as “promiscuous” are usually ones that have lacked a strong male presence in their childhood. As a girl grows older, I think it is imperative that she has a father figure in her that demonstrates to her how a woman should be treated, respected, admired, and loved. As well as someone who reiterates how she deserves to treat herself. If a girl is lacking that in some way, I think her perception of men can be a bit skewed. I have many friends who tell me that to this day, because they were lacking a father figure in their lives, they now seek validation from men and often reach out to them in the easiest way, through promiscuity. (Perhaps it is a way to get validation from that “father figure” that wasn’t there for them? Just an idea???)

Every woman deserves to be desired, to be put on a pedestal, to be pampered, to be treated as if she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Now, to be clear, I’m not saying that going out and having a good time is a sign of promiscuity or weakness, not at all! I’m just saying that in terms of society’s typical and stereotyped “promiscuous” woman, if I had to guess, I bet that in her past/childhood, she was lacking a strong male figure that showed her just how much of a gem she really is.

Again, don’t hate! These are just my theories...totally based on observation and I am always ready to discuss!


Love, Kiran.